8Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do,
It seems here that Paul is speaking as one who has been appointed with authority by the Lord to guide those within the church, and as such Paul states that he could ‘order’ Philemon to do what he should do in regards to Onesimus.
9yet I appeal to you on the basis of love. I then, as Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus— 10I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains.
However here in verse 9 Paul chooses to appeal to Philemon’s loving nature by asking a favor in a loving manner rather than an order, which may have stirred up trouble within the heart of Philemon remembering Onesimus running away from him. In verse 10 we read that Onesimus became Paul’s ‘son’ while he was in chains, or rather he became a believer in Christ, and saw Paul as his spiritual father.
11Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.
Paul emphasises here that Onesimus was once useless, having run away from Philemon, but now that he is a believer in Christ Jesus, he has been transformed in spirit and is now useful to both Paul and Philemon.
12I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel. 14But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do will be spontaneous and not forced. 15Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back for good— 16no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a man and as a brother in the Lord.
Paul gives Philemon a sympathetic explanation for Onesimus’ situation and appeals for him as a loved brother hoping that Philemon would act in similar fashion. Paul names him ‘his very heart’ in hopes that Philemon would welcome Onesimus as if he were Paul himself. In verse 14 Paul also displays an act of humbleness by ensuring Philemon makes the final decision to how he wants to handle his servant Onesimus.
17So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. 18If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me. 19I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand. I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in Christ. 21Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.
Paul’s request here is that if Onesimus has done Philemon any wrongdoing that Philemon would charge it to Paul. We know already that Onesimus had caused trouble for Philemon so for Paul to be saying that he will pay back what he owes on his behalf is almost his way of seeking the mercies of Philemon, knowing that Philemon will do the right thing.
22And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in answer to your prayers.23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings. 24And so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow workers.25The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.
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